Divorce Preplanning Strategies

Nobody marries expecting to get divorced. Unfortunately, 4 out of 10 marriages today end in divorce. That percentage seems to grow each year. In many divorce proceedings women typically suffer the greatest loss financially. Men typically tend to lose precious time with their children.

There are several simple and logical ways to protect yourself financially if you believe your marriage is in jeopardy:

Non-marital assets are not part of the assets divided in a divorce. Instead, they are considered the asset of either the husband or the wife and generally awarded to that person in a divorce proceeding. Categories of non-marital assets include:

• Property you inherit
• Often proceeds from personal injury awards
• Items owned prior to marriage
• Gifts to one party rather than the family

If non-marital assets are commingled with assets purchased or improved during the marriage, it may not be possible to claim the asset as yours in the event of divorce. However, some "tracing" of non-marital assets may be possible. To do so, it is very important to retain all documents demonstrating the sale of the asset and the use of the proceeds realized from the sale.

Make sure your name is listed on all household accounts. Establish at least one credit card in your own name. This will help to create an individual credit history. When you are on your own, you will have a better chance qualifying for loans, mortgages and credit cards. These are all important considerations after a divorce.

Maintain complete and separate records of your financial holdings such as bank accounts, IRA's, 401K, land purchases, and stocks. This includes assets in your spouse's name as well.

If a divorce is imminent, you should immediately contact joint credit-card companies in writing to freeze or cancel your joint accounts. You do not want to be responsible for your spouse's new credit card charges. You may also wish to close your joint bank accounts. If any proceeds are removed, keep an accounting of where the money is placed or how the proceeds are spent.

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